I’m not talking about times when you get taken down a peg or
reminded that maybe you are not perfect. What I am talking about is times when
you are humbled not because someone corrected you but because someone else has
done something so impressive that you saying ‘well done’ feels not just
inadequate but like a glib platitude.
I felt like that again as I stood in the home of Beatrice, a
woman who’s life has been completely turned around in a few months.
Earlier in 2014 Beatrice’s husband died. She was left alone with
four children to look after and was living in a tiny shelter that was barely
tall enough to sit in.
Fast-forward a to October 2014 and she is living in a 4 room
house, owns a cow, a goat and is able to pay for her children’s education. But
what led to this incredible transformation?
Well, it wasn’t money she was given by an aid worker; nor
was it money from the Rwandan government. It was support from a local women’s
group.
During our time in Huye we are working with African
Evangelical Enterprise (AEE). They have been working in Rwanda for many years
on many development projects and one of them features Self Help Groups. These
Self Help Groups are groups for local women that AEE helped to set up. When we
met them the Self Help Group, named ‘Amahoro’ (or ‘Peace’) they were open about
the their initial reaction to the idea. They told us that they were living in
very basic conditions and they originally thought they were going to be given
money; when it transpired that this was not the case they were not particularly
impressed! Instead of AEE giving them money they spent several weeks offering
training on subjects such as managing money, savings and investments.
Beatrice joined Amahoro just after her husband died. Amahoro
helped Beatrice to build a new house, helped paint that house and lent her
money so that she could buy a cow. Cows can change lives in Rwanda because they
produce both milk and fertiliser to sell. Because of the cow she can afford to
help pay for school materials for her children, helping them have a brighter
future. Granted, things are not perfect. Beatrice does not have electricity and
her cow hast to sleep in her house at night for fear of robbery, but things are
so much better. Beatrice herself says that ‘Amahoro taught me to save money;
saving money is why I have achieved so much.’
Everything the Beatrice now has she has because of support
from Amahoro Self Help Group.
Everything Beatrice has she has because a group of women
came together and was given training by AEE.
Everything Beatrice has she has because the women then used
that training to work themselves out
of poverty. They weren’t able to buy mattresses and improve their living
conditions because they were given money but because they worked hard and saved
and invested. They improved their lives
and the lives of their children through their own hard work and support for one
another.
And they didn’t stop there. Once they had improved their own
lives they used their money to help and support women like Beatrice and help
her to turn her life around. Ordinary people came together and changed their
lives, the lives of their families and the lives of their communities.
I have always believed that when people come together the
world can change for the better. When our 4x4 pulled up outside the church in rural
Rwanda I didn’t realise was that I was about to see just what people can completely
transform their lives when they are given encouragement, support and training.
As I said at the beginning, saying ‘well done’ when people
have achieved so much doesn’t feel sufficient, but it’s all I can think to say.
So, Amahoro Self Help Group, in the most inspired, encouraging and humble way possible: well done.
So, Amahoro Self Help Group, in the most inspired, encouraging and humble way possible: well done.